Ok, I've been pondering this now for over two weeks, and it occurs to me that you'r getting HeX in installments. So you've seen her hat. You've seen her hand.
Lets play a game very similar to the "Where's Wally?" books. In the picture below is HeX. Can you find her?

This photo was taken in some field north of Birmingham 27/10/2002.
In my defnece, it's been a bloody long stretch of work. In the last 10 days I've racked up 14 hours overtime and driven 1,060ish miles. This is my last day today befor I finaly get some time off.